Saturday, March 30, 2013

Kimchi for Maple Syrup

I started this post a week ago, but got a bit lazy about finishing it...

Mould in Korean is "gompangi". Why do I know that, you may ask. Our apartment does not have the best insulation and as a result, we've had mould growing in various corners and windowsills. We're on good terms with our landlords (an older husband and wife team), but the communication barrier makes it hard to explain when there are issues that need to be dealt with. So, Corey talked to his principal, who talked to our landlords, who came and put up fresh wall paper in place of the old mouldy stuff.

They went above and beyond just keeping things up to code. Once they were in, they repaired the caulking, replaced our shower head, and I think they may have swept our floor while we were out (even though I actually did sweep it the day before!) Throughout the winter and again this spring, our landlords have brought us an endless supply of kimchi as well. We gave them a small bottle of maple syrup that we brought with us from Canada. It was a sort of cultural exchange.

Corey also convinced me to explore Korean culture further by going with him to the local jimjilbang. I will try to explain what a jimjilbang is, but I know I won't do it justice. It's a kind of spa and community centre rolled into one and then put on steroids.

From the outside, this particular jimjilbang does not look like much of anything. It could be an office building or an apartment, except for the big colouful sign on the top that declares it is "Spasis". Inside it is a huge space with everything going on at once. I'll take you through it level by level.

On the first level, there's the women's area. This is where I changed into the T-shirt and shorts uniform provided by the jimjilbang. There are showers, large hot tubs, a sauna, massage area and a swimming pool. Most people walk around nude in this area and bathing suits don't really seem to be part of the jimjilbang experience.

The next level is the men's floor, which Corey tells me is basically the same as the women's area, except restricted to men only instead of women.

The third floor is a big open space with a small snack bar in the middle and hobbit sized doorways along the outer walls. There are many families sitting on the floor. Everyone is in the same shorts and T-shirt uniforms. Some people are watching one of the big screen T.Vs, while other are having a picnic, and others still are taking a nap on some pillows (which seems impossible with the number of kids running around, leaving ice cream trails behind them). But, where do the doors lead? Each one leads to a different kind of sauna. There's a coal sauna, salt sauna and others. There's also a sort of sun room that has extra oxygen pumped in or something and another room with a picture of an igloo on the outside that warns it is a human refrigerator (to sit in between sauna times). Corey and I ducked into several of these rooms to see what they were like. I was surprised that people were eating everywhere-- even in the hottest saunas!

The fourth floor has a bit of everything too. There's a fitness room, a library, a computer lab, and a cafeteria that's divided into regular table areas and traditional Korean tables that are low to the floor. Again, there are people in every section, and everyone is eating everywhere. There were a bunch of kids eating candy and ice cream in the fitness room, while jogging on the treadmills in bare feet. This is strange to me, but it's obviously a very typical Saturday afternoon for them.

Finally, the top floor leads out to the roof. It was still cold when we were there so we didn't go outside, but we could see out the window that there is a jungle gym, splashpad and a lazyriver-type pool out there. Very surreal.

Other than that, not too much out of the ordinary is going on. We've had a quiet weekend, enjoying Easter treats that Corey's mom sent (er...I mean that the Easter Bunny brought). I got to skype with my family for Passover and see how much my little cousins are growing! Teaching continues to be good. Textbooks with contrived dialogues continue to be a major part of my classes. The schedule keeps changing, but I've learned to just go with it.






Monday, March 18, 2013

Geumsana Temple Stay

I haven't written in a few weeks. The start of the new school year has been a bit busy (yay!). It's so nice to hear voices and laughing in the halls again. I'm also really glad to have regular cafeteria lunches again. There are always surprises in store at lunchtime and whether it's pig intestines or pineapple, squid or strawberries, or other unrecognizable other things (that are more often than not very delicious) I'm just happy that there is a hot meal waiting for me.

Last, last, weekend, we went to Itaewon. Here are a couple pics from that day. Yes, mostly of the deliciousness that is poutine and falafel because these are rare gems that can only be found in Seoul.

Corey with Itaewon in the backdrop

Mmm a taste of home

Petra Palace--amazing falafel place!

Anyway, what I really want to write about is our Temple Stay weekend while it's fresh in my mind.

This past weekend we went to Geumsansa Buddhist Temple. We met up with other foreigners in Seoul and took a bus south to Jeollabuk-do region. We travelled high up into the mountains to reach our destination on Saturday afternoon. Soon after we arrived, we were given monastic uniforms to get into the spirit of the place. Then they divided us up and showed us to our rooms. I was with six friends from Incheon. We set up our quilts and blankets on the floor and settled in a bit before heading to the meeting hall to make lotus lanterns.

Reaching the temple

Pagoda 

Making lotus lanterns



Afterwards we did some meditation, and had an early vegetarian dinner of rice, soup, tofu, and vegetables. Then the monks led us out into the courtyard to take turns ringing a big bell. We went into the Main Buddha Hall for the evening chant. There were many large statues of Buddha and a few monks beginning their chanting. We all followed along the best we could, since we'd been shown the basic bowing and hand positions in our earlier meditation instruction.


Buddhas

We went back to the meeting hall and had tea with a monk who answered many questions from our group. He had a translator, but sometimes he was eager to answer a question himself and skipped the translator. His English was very good and he admitted he had the translator there mostly because he was too shy to use his English in front of a big group. He answered some serious questions about what Buddhists believe in and why vegetarianism is important in keeping with the idea that they should not kill anyone or anything. He also answered those questions that people are often curious about, but sometimes embarrassed to ask like: "Do you do any recreational activities?" The answer was yes and that he really liked playing soccer with other monks a couple of times a week and no, they did not play in their long formal monk robes. One guy in our group asked if there was a special way monks had to shave their heads and the monk answered that usually his monk friend shaved his head; His choice razor was Gilette.


My ninja-monk room mates  

At the end of the talk it was 8:30pm and time for bed. We were told there was an optional chanting session that we could attend at 3:30 am. Most of us wanted to try and wake up for the 3:30 chant to get the full experience so we had the lights out by 8:45 and I think everyone in our room was asleep around 9pm. At 3:00am the drums were sounded and four out of the seven of us actually got up to go chant in the main Buddha Hall. We put on our monastic uniforms and headed out into the early morning. The ceremony was almost identical to the one we had done as a group the night before, except this time there were only 13 people (out of our group of 40) and there was an extra surreal quality added to the ceremony because it was so dark that we could see the stars (which never happens where we are in Incheon). So we walked into the hall, took our places, and chanted. I can see why people would choose this experience as an escape from city life. It's the kind of space where you can actually hear and feel yourself think.

After the chanting we went back to bed for a bit and then woke up again at 5 to meditate. Most of the group was there by the time we had our traditional temple breakfast at 5:30 am. It's a very cool ritual with a lot of etiquette on how to serve and how to accept food. I have to say, I am not a big fan of rice and kimchi for breakfast. It was especially hard to stomach the piece of radish required for wiping down the bowl at the end of the meal.

Breakfast is served

passing along the place settings

Corey radishing his bowl clean

I felt better when we were done with radish-wiping (and then water washing) our dishes because we were led to the other side of the temple to see a beautiful bridge over a creek with the mountain as the backdrop. Some other people in our group who were not on dish duty were responsible for sweeping the pathways.

Sweeping the paths


The view

A peaceful bridge

Once our chores were completed, we followed a monk who led us on a refreshing morning walk in the forested mountainside. The pictures don't capture the beauty of the place, even with the trees still in there sparse winter state. When the trees start to blossom, I imagine it's even more like something from a fairytale.

Walking in the woods

 Corey and the trees


The most amazing part, to me, was when we were given 108 beads and a piece of string. The monk instructed us to perform a bow and for each bow, to add a bead to the string (which works sort of like a rosary for keeping focused on prayers). The full bow is pretty much a yoga movement that I'm familiar with, but I'd never repeated it 108 times and wasn't sure I'd be able to. Still, Corey and I took our beads to the main Buddha Hall and began. One bow, one bead. I enjoyed the process and tried to focus on doing each bow as completely as the first. I finished my necklace nearly an hour later. I was really proud of myself for sticking to the process and for the final product.

We had lunch with the monks and with some Korean pilgrims who had hiked up to the temple. It was bibimbap and seaweed soup with apples and pears for dessert. Then we changed into our ordinary clothes, said our goodbyes to the monks and translators, loaded back onto the bus and headed to Seoul.

Serving up some vegetarian goodness

On the bridge

In Seoul, our group from Incheon gave up the vegetarian lifestyle we'd experienced at the temple in favour of a Mexican style dinner. I think we kept the spirit of the weekend with us though.

Mexican food and drinks time

When Corey and I finally got back to Incheon, we were exhausted and fell asleep pretty early.This blog post does not do justice to the amazingness of the whole experience, but I'm not trying to write the next Eat, Pray, Love here, so I'd better stop now. Plus, my legs still hurt from all the bowing and I can't sit still this long.